[Today's Lisa Zate Topic] Self-bullying eradication campaign!

 

Large-scale construction is underway in Auckland for the first subway opening. At the same time, construction is being carried out here and there on the ground. Moreover, all at once. Therefore, it is very inconvenient for car users everywhere there are one-way streets and closed roads. Moreover, it is complicated if there are no signs or displays. This would mean don't use your car anymore in the city.

I had a promise and so went today, but I was getting frustrated as to whether I could make it in time for that. However, I suddenly noticed.

The act of "irritating" is just bullying myself . For the past 40 years, partly because of perfectionism character, I've been frustrated and shortened my life when something in the way jumped to such a perfection. The "maybe" thought that "may not be in time" made me think badly about what hadn't happened yet. This is a clear "bullying".

Another time I heard that people were saying bad things about me. I was anxious and couldn't sleep at night. But wait a minute, this is a story I've heard from people and he didn't tell me directly, and if I did, would it be my problem? No, no. Even if someone says they hate or hate themselves, it's not a problem for themselves or others, but for their own thoughts. I don't hurt myself with that selfish thought . But I've been repeating it. Not any more.

Such time is wasted. The limited time of life, which is only once in our lives, is precious. There is no waste so that others will disturb you, "I wonder" and "What should I do?"

Nevertheless, the more delicate people and the more caring for others, the sooner they die, kill themselves. 

I noticed. I'm about to stop abusing myself. I want as many people as possible to tune in. Even if I can't take good care of myself, I'll just stop hurting myself any more.

Basic story from myashdom.org