[Today's Lisa Zate Topic] Today's Japan News; If your current location is cramped

If your current location is uncomfortable, 1. Change relationships 2. Change work 3. move location There are only these three. Doing so will have a great impact on mental health.

When I was a student, I have already decided to move out my country because of the discomfort I had with my life in Japan. It was a good choice.

I want you to do it as soon as possible before your mentality is broken. Especially in Japan, people are stressed by the invisible sensations that are unique to a country with a large population. There are still problems with brides and mothers, affairs and cheating, SNS fraud, embezzlement, drugs, suicide, and crime.

Everyone wants to be comfortable (楽;RAKU). The trouble is that the character "comfort" can also be written as "fun", so we are lazy people who sometimes make an illusion and think that comfort is fun. If you just neglect, it will come back to yourself. it's sure to be treated.

You should always work hard and keep moving forward toward your goals. But it would be cramped to do it every day for 80 years 365 days a year. I wish I could walk while looking only at the top. It would be very easy no matter how we have a mind that does not consider unpleasant things to happen.

We are the result of all what we have done and what we have decided to do. It's not a rule by anyone. Who do you go out with, what you do for work and eat, whether you have a family or not even if you may or may not have all your salary taken by your wife, it costs money to raise your child and you will lose all your freedom and it is up to you to decide whether you will have a child or not, and whether you will accept or not accept the three-year overseas assignment to a dangerous country.

Is that relationship really necessary for your life?

Is the job a lifelong benefit for you? Isn't it for the company? Isn't it for someone else?

It is decided by your own decision.

 Basic story from myashdom.org