[Today's Lisa Zate Topic] Today's Japan News; Basic Trust

 

"Basic trust"; a sense of security that others will accept as it is, and a sense of trust in yourself that you think you are a valuable person to others.

It is
an attitude towards oneself and the world gained from one year's experience
, meaning a simple sense of trust in others and worthy of trust in oneself.

REF; HIROSAKI UNIVERSITY HEALTH CARE CENTER
MIYUKI TANABA ・ DAISUKE SASAKI ・ KIYOKO SATO FROM "BASIC TRUST AND INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS IN ADOLESCENCE"

The first stage of developmental crisis "basic trust vs. basic distrust" is a psychosocial crisis that predominates in infancy (a
tension that arises between an individual 's developmental desires and cultural social expectations). Is

REF; HIROSAKI UNIVERSITY HEALTH CARE CENTER
MIYUKI TANABA ・ DAISUKE SASAKI ・ KIYOKO SATO FROM "BASIC TRUST AND INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS IN ADOLESCENCE"

Since infancy, I have only two emotions, "pleasant" or "unpleasant." The positive approach of laughing together at this time and trying to get rid of it when it is unpleasant is the key to forming "basic trust".

Beyond the time you can express with laughter and crying, that is, when you start walking alone, the next step is waiting.

You will be able to conditionally acquire the encounters and judgments of what you should do and what you should not do. This is called "discipline".

Of course, if you eat, walk, or brush your teeth during this time, you will not be able to do it. You can wear it conditionally in each of these scenes.

After that, when he was about 4 years old, "sociality" to play with his friends began to develop. You will learn how to interact with your friends while being told that if you do something bad, you will make a mistake, and if you do something good, you will be told "Thank you" while stealing and sharing toys.

This is actually the basic basis of human beings, which is the basis of adults, no, until death. It is said that a child who has learned this basic rule will be a person who can easily associate with friends and build relationships that people around him can play with. In other words, even if you go out into society, you will be a person who can easily blend in with it.

In the subsequent childhood, "interests" and "questions" begin to appear from the basics. The desire to know and experience more things emerges.

Therefore, it is important to have exciting and various experiences during elementary school. Adults around you need to teach each and every question properly.

In the subsequent adolescence, it becomes repulsive to the rules so far. Why can I watch TV for only 2 hours? Why do I have to read this book by tomorrow? It is said that the children are looking for themselves while repelling during this period. It is a time when the ego is born and makes decisions about what kind of person and how he wants to live.

Those who are clearly living by their own will have a stable personality.

It is a negative idea such as complex and inferiority complex that makes the personality unstable.

It is the social experience that influences it. It is also the mission of parents and adults around them to get out of their homes, whether children or adults, and meet various human words, facial expressions, experiences, experiences, and so on. Most of the time, society is going around with rules that are different from ours. Also, give them the opportunity to interact with older people as well as their grandparents. There are always older store managers and customers at the part-time job. In addition, it is better to have a lot of experience such as the way of thinking in the home when called to a human home and the difference in rules. Participation in local events is also a good opportunity.

In this way, the changes that correspond to the growth of children according to the stage must be supported by the hands of adults. That way, "basic trust" can still grow and move in the right direction.

It is said that depression and suicide will go away as the power to believe in people and the power to believe in oneself develops.

This blog is translated by Google translator app directly from Original article by "myashdom.org' - https://myashdom.org/2020/10/13/basictrust/